Your position assumes that atheists have less commitment and a higher divorce rate than christians. With the divorce rate for 1st marriages at 50%, and athiests making up 5% of the population, it is rather clear that athiests are not driving the divorce rate. I doubt you truely love your job. People use the word love too loosely. i may enjoy my employment, my car, my shotgun, I do not love souless objects. But I have seen plenty of divorces due to people loving stuff over people. The failures of others in no way demeans the strong commitment you and your wife have for each other.