I have no problem with either., my problem is with people who believe they have the right to require other people to follow their religious beliefs. In case you missed it in elementry school, a lot of people came here to escape people like you and have freedom of religion. You have no right to demand that people meet your religious beliefs to be married. Nor do I have the right to require you to meet my religious beliefs to be married. Clear enough? I currently married 22 years. It has been my only marriage and I entered into marriage believing divorce is wrong. I have strong anti gay marriage christian friends who have been divorced 3 times.